honestly the thing that freaks me out the most about non-aces and the emphasis on “asexuals can have sex too!!” is that it really heavily implies that most people have never even thought about negotiating consent before
being repulsed by or uncomfortable with or generally disinterested in sex isn’t the exclusive domain of asexuals. everybody has their own, individual levels of comfort with physical/emotional/sexual intimacy&contact regardless of orientation or libido or whatever, and each individual’s wants and needs need to be addressed on an individual basis
how fucking fucked up is it that people would rather use asexuals who are cool with having sex to proselytize for their basic-ass “sex-positivity” rather than actually address the topic of informed consent and acknowledge that a healthy sex life can just as easily involve no sex at all so long as it’s what that person wants
when asexual discourse focuses more heavily on how its okay for asexual people to engage in sex than why so many people with no or low sexual desire feel obligated to engage in sex that is a serious problem
i love every ace spectrum headcanon so so much and i often have some of these but
if you, a non-ace (and anons are automatically sorted into this category, nope i’m not sorry at all), suddenly ~care about us and our representation~ the moment someone wants to ship a character who is fat, or dark skinned, or perceived as cold or unfeeling then you are so, SO transparent and not here to help us at all lmao
yes this is very important too
but no really
it’s always ‘but it hurts the allosexual person to not have sex, it’s not healthy for them’
nvrmind that it might not be healthy of the ace person to have sex when they don’t want to
nvrmind that plenty of allosexual people have no desire or need for sex GASP
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They seized the opportunity, and slam dunked it so fucking hard
don’t eat them
instead of sex repulsed say sex apathetic, its offensive and kind of gross if you refer to people disinterested in something sexual as ‘sexually repulsed’
this is the only time ill post something like this
lmao no some people are actually repulsed by sex and it’s really shitty to say they’re just disinterested when they’re actively disgusted by it
can’t figure out if op is talking about applying (inaccurate) labels to people without their consent, or if they’re trying to kick the “sex repulsed is slut shaming” hornets nest again
because the former is gross and it’s making assumptions about someone without their input based on obnoxious and somewhat damaging stereotypes and in that case i agree with the post
but if we’re getting into this ‘repulsion is shaming’ shit again (remember when everyone was like “don’t say ‘repulsed’ say ‘aversive’!!!”? fuck that) then op needs to shut up
who weren’t androids or aliens
whose asexuality wasn’t seen as something needing to be ‘fixed’
and who aren’t socipaths
Does godzilla count as a sociopath?
TO BE HONEST I WOULDN’T REALLY USE GODZILLA AS A SHINING EXAMPLE OF ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION IN MEDIA BECAUSE GODZILLA IS A HUGE FUCKING LIZARD
that character who’s super emotional and outgoing: asexual
that character that flirts with everyone: asexual
that character who canonically has a ton of relationships: asexual